When it comes to getting our kids ready for school, we know the drill: running errands to pick up new clothes, food for lunches and, perhaps most importantly, school supplies. As parents, we prepare our kids for the coming school year, yet rarely take time to get ourselves prepared for the possible challenges ahead.
Let’s start by assessing the realities of what it means to be a teen today. Arizona’s teens face pressure, as all teens do, but one of the scariest and most prevalent is prescription drug use.
Many parents assume their children aren’t the ones using and abusing prescription medication, but the reality is that even if your kids aren’t yet using, the chances are great they will be offered pills.
While parents are busy packing their kids’ backpacks, here the 11 things to put in your own backpack as school year 2011 begins.
- The facts – Arm yourself with up-to-date information about substance abuse. A recent study found that teenage girls are more likely than teenage boys to perceive potential benefits from drug use and drinking, making teen girls more vulnerable to drug and alcohol abuse. Use the facts to begin a dialogue with your teen – boy or girl – about the dangers of substance abuse.
- Cell phone – Use your phone to get in touch with your teens. Learn to communicate as they do, through texting. Create a secret phrase or code your teen can use if they need to call you for help to get out of a situation, but don’t want to say anything in the presence of friends.
- Phone numbers – Along with your phone, make a list of important phone numbers – your teen’s friends and their parents, as well as coaches, school nurses, mentors, etc. Create a network of responsible adults.
- Watch or clock – To remind you to spend at least 15 minutes a day talking or playing with your teen, and also to set curfews.
- Plastic bag/cat litter – Prescription drugs are the number one threat our teens face today. Get rid of the old medications in your home that you don’t need any more. In order to correctly dispose of prescription drugs, the pills must be smashed and mixed in with some undesirable trash like coffee grinds or kitty litter. Do not flush the drugs down the toilet – it contaminates the water source!
- Food – Eating meals together can provide an opportunity to stay connected and talk with your teens about important topics, or just about the day’s events.
- Pillow – A reminder for parents that once kids become teenagers, large-scale sleepovers are no longer appropriate. A group will get into trouble much easier than one or two teens together.
- Partnership literature – This will help you keep your kids safe, or help you determine whether or not your teen is using.
- Something fun – Let’s not forget that spending time with your children and teens should be fun. Go to a movie, play a board game, go for a walk – spending time with your teens will help strengthen your bond. Your children will respect you as a parent and role model, but they will appreciate and cherish your friendship as well.
- Patience – Remember, while our teens may look grown up and act grown up, their brains haven’t yet caught up. Brains aren’t fully mature until about age 24. There is some fascinating science on the teen brain and substance abuse that can help you understand this time in a teen’s life.
- DrugFreeAz.org –Whatever you need, we are here for you. If you have questions about what a drug looks like or help with how to get a conversation started with your teen, begin by going to our web site.
